I know you do, man. You're real good like that, you know?

[He's not going to call Tobias a kid. He doesn't want this to be any more patronizing than it probably sounds.]

But I wanna know you're getting helped out, too, all right? A setup like this, where people are gonna say things they wouldn't even breathe if they had to have their name attached...it's not gonna be a real good atmosphere for people working through shit themselves. Frankly, I'm not sure I'd approve myself, but I got North and Carolina and years of training from professionals on how to deal with this, at least as far as my own problems are concerned. I need to know you've got the resources to keep yourself grounded, dude.